Never the enemy don't feel weak : kosaremaharaj
As long as a person is surrounded by evils and is full of demerits, there will always be a lack of happiness and peace in his life, happiness and peace depends on the conduct of the person. When a person becomes full of greed, anger and ego, then happiness and peace start disappearing from his life. Greed is the only reason for all kinds of misery. A greedy person starts getting jealous of others, gets upset with his progress and prosperity. While it should not be so. One should always rely on one's own karma and one's own ability and think about how one can be successful himself. Only a person without greed achieves success in life.Anger is the biggest enemy of a person. In anger, a person is unable to decide between right and wrong. Therefore, one should stay away from anger. Anger can be controlled with the power of spirituality. Anger can be removed by hard work and discipline in life. One should always stay away from the ego. Arrogance increases the sufferings of a person. Ego removes oneself from loved ones. In the ego, a person is deprived of real happiness and peace. The ego can be destroyed by love and compassion.
Personality development through discourse :
Any work starts with your influence, the success of any work also depends a lot on your presentation. Therefore, it is important that you groom your personality, which will also make the work you do with you effective.
Some people say that we cannot become like the one who is successful, it is important to make it clear here that our aim is not to make you like anyone, nature has given some special qualities in every person, the need to identify them and ability to make better use of them. When we are working among women and motivating the people to think better and build society, then our own personality plays an important role in this work. As we see that a sculptor, while making an idol, takes a shapeless stone and peels off its useless part, which makes the shape of that shapeless stone beautiful, in the same way some of our evils are separated. The true brilliance of our personality comes out.
Often we see that some people impress anyone quickly and establish a better rapport and relationship with them, all this is possible to understand some of their basic habits and to introduce them in their life. Given below are some things, with the help of which we can develop our personality and make our personality effective.
Most important is our behavior towards others, our behavior creates or worsens the environment around us, it would be appropriate that our behavior should be restrained so that the environment should also be restrained. We should never humiliate anyone with our behavior and never complain about others. Take good care of this thing while communicating with women.
Honestly praise the good qualities that others have in your heart. If you can't praise someone, then at least never criticize others. You can never get any kind of benefit by criticizing someone. If you want to criticize someone's work, then try not to get personal, tone and facts can help you in this work.
Take an interest in listening and understanding others. If you take an interest in others, others will certainly be interested in you. Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about them. While talking as a motivator, keep in mind that your thoughts are not important here, give importance to the interests and needs of others, remember your role is only that of a helper, so do not impose your views on them. Recognize the importance of others and respect their feelings.
While talking, often our expressions are not conducive to the discussion, due to which the effect has not been created, so try to keep our face, hands, ups and downs of voice and dress always friendly. Along with increasing the effect of personality, it also gives weight to our thoughts.
The argument does not end there. A meaningful debate is more appropriate than a pointless debate. Respect the opinion of others. Never say 'you are wrong'. If you are wrong then first of all admit your mistake. Give others a chance to have their say, this will make them feel that your point of view is of utmost importance to them.
Make an honest effort to see any event from the point of view of others. This will prove that you have a sympathetic attitude towards the wishes and thoughts of others. Normally, we get excited during the conversation and start challenging others, which is not appropriate for a meaningful discussion. Put your facts and then let the discussion happen. Try to get everyone to agree with your facts. These efforts of ours will only strengthen the foundation of participatory discussions and decisions.
An honest assessment of yourself is extremely important. Always think about your thoughts and actions, and discuss your shortcomings with your friends, this will give you the ability to improve yourself as well as get the ability to analyze yourself.
Generally, our personality gets affected by small things, sometimes we also get caught in some trouble. If we take care of these small things then there can be some benefit. Rest more efforts are needed.
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